If you ever happen to capture the grey mood of a hunched over landlord; strolling around aimlessly and depleted of life, like his world has fallen apart- the law of averages says he’s dealing with a tenant in arrears. Because, sadly, we don’t really care or get saddened by much else, and the only other reason we hunch over is to pick up loose pennies. It’s totally pathetic, but it’s true.
If my blog has shown me anything, it’s how desperate, irrational and saddened a landlord can truly become when someone stands in between them and their cheese. While it’s a deeply gloomy state of affairs for the suicidal landlord, the neurochemical reactions make for great entertainment for everyone else, because the true nature of how psychotic someone can truly be is unravelled. And let’s face it, there’s something fascinating about watching someone go nuts over money.
Unfortunately, dealing with late rent/tenant arrears is one of the most common problems faced by landlords, and sooner or later, it’s something you’ll most likely have to deal with if you haven’t done so already. It happens to thousands of landlords on a daily basis, so if it’s happening to you, fear not, you’re not alone. Of course, that’s never really any consolation, because you don’t give a shit if it’s happening to anyone else- the point is, it’s happening to you. So fuck everyone else and their problems. Right?
Incidentally, while rent arrears and late payments is so incredibly common, it’s pretty odd how so many new landlords completely neglect the prospect of it ever happening to them, consequently, they’re left dazed and confused when it becomes their reality. Dealing with the situation is part of the job, there’s no escaping it, and I don’t even know why anyone would contemplate becoming a landlord without knowing it’s eventually going to happen to them. It’s not a question of “if”, but “when”
However, being aware of the risks is one aspect, knowing how to deal with it when it occurs is another. It’s when I read comments/questions like the following, when I start to realise how so many have no idea…
Can I change the locks when my tenant is out?
Can I move my tenants stuff out when they’re at work?
Is it illegal to throw my tenants out if they haven’t paid rent?
My tenant hasn’t responded to all 30 of my phonecalls, what should I do?
No, no, bloody yes, and stop calling… immediately.
And believe me, I read a couple of landlords asking those questions on a daily basis. That’s a lot of prospective lawsuits.
Rightly or wrongly so, there is a legal/proper procedure that should be followed when dealing with rogue tenants, and until a tenant surrenders their tenancy or is legally evicted, your property is still their home. More specifically, when you’re dealing with late rent issues, consider the following…
1) Stay calm, don’t act on your ludicrous impulses
It’s unlikely you’re your normal self right now, you’re probably unhinged and emotional. That means you’re dangerous, and not in a good way. A very stupid way.
Seriously, don’t lose your shit and act like an idiot. Be cool.
It’s so easy to let frustration take over when you’re dealing with bottom-of-the-barrel tenants. The first few times I dealt with late payers/arrears I was overcome with rage, and that was the driving force behind some pretty morbid fantasies about what I wanted to do to my tenants and their limbs.
At certain points it stopped being about the money, but more so about the fact that some dickhead was taking the absolute piss. I honoured my end of the deal- I followed all my legal obligations as a landlord, and provided a clean and safe living environment, so I just wanted the same mutual respect in return from the A-HOLE in question.
Naturally, it doesn’t help that I’m the most impatient person in the world- I want all my problems resolved immediately. But, really, patience is key. You need to realise that you’re already in a bad situation, but it’s extremely easy to make the situation 10 times worse by acting irrationally (which is usually unlawful).
Your first port of call is to remain calm and fight all your urges to do anything stupid, that includes rounding up ‘the boys’ and paying a visit to your tenants. You and your ugly mates may shake up the tenants, and your menacing tactics may even force them to vacate, but if they have an ounce of intelligence or receive advice from someone with an ounce of intelligence, they’ll prosecute your dumb-ass and take you to the cleaners, and rightly so. Eventually, you’ll be just as ugly, but poorer than if you had followed the frustratingly tedious, yet correct procedure in the first place.
Just be cool.
Failing that, remain rational and patient, and accept that justice will prevail if the correct procedures are followed. If you allow yourself to get thrown off course, you can easily start becoming prone to prosecution, further delays and costs.
2) Accept the realities of the situation
Once you’re calm and removed the idea of strapping your tie around your mouldy forehead and kicking the front door down, you need to accept the realities of the situation (which could easily reignite your urge to be irrational). This is easier said than done because the realities can be sickening and difficult to accept. You’ll probably question life/the legal system and contemplate taking your own life when you truly familiarise yourself with ‘how unfair the system is’- because that’s the fate of every landlord that encounters rent arrears and the legal system for the first time. But you need to ignore the injustice and accept the law as it stands and follow accordingly. The legal system won’t change for you, so you need to adapt.
- It’s emotional: I’ve read several articles on how to deal with rent arrears/late rent, and none of them mention the emotional stress it causes the landlord, which I feel make them utterly incomplete. I’m not saying what I’ve written here today is going to be any more practical or useful, but I do recognise the severe impact the situation can have emotionally. It’s one of the biggest adverse affects, besides from the crippled cashflow.
You’ll probably lose sleep over this (if you aren’t already)- you’ll lay awake with overwhelming frustration and worry. I’ve done it, and it’s horrible. There’s nothing I can do or say to relieve you from the pain, all I can say is that it’s normal, and the situation WILL get resolved, just not as quickly as you would like.
Allow your emotions to flow, but do not allow them to control your actions.
- Tenants rights: tenants do NOT lose their statutory rights if they fall into arrears or breach any other term of their tenancy. They simply don’t. Your naive and brittle mind may think otherwise, and you may even believe that stripping someone of their rights because they aren’t paying their way is the ‘normal’ procedure. Regrettably, your wet-dream is only that, a wet-dream. Back in reality, you CANONT just “kick the tenant out”- rogue tenants are still entitled to live in quiet enjoyment, which means you can’t “harass” them in any shape or form, which includes making unannounced cameo appearances, flooding them with phonecalls, text messages or letters.
- Slow process: late payments and arrears rarely get resolved quickly, so accept that this could take time to resolve. You’ll mostly be waiting around and waiting on your tenant. Truly frustrating.
- You’ll lose money: there’s a good possibility that by the time this is over, you’ll be out of pocket in some shape or form. And even if you chase after your losses, you’ll probably question whether the chase was even worth it, because trying to squeeze money out of someone that allegedly doesn’t have any is brutal and fruitless.
- Plan your finances: the biggest fear is almost always the worry of having to pay the mortgage- most landlords rely on the rent to pay the mortgage.
You need to ensure that you can make the payments in case the late payments continue. Plan your next few months, and if needs be, make changes to your lifestyle to accommodate the situation. You could also try contacting your mortgage lender and see if they’re prepared to cut you some slack, but I wouldn’t hold my breath.
Needless to say, every landlord should have a contingency pot they can dip into so these situations can be absorbed, but yeah, let’s be real. Do whatever you can to gather some disposable cash to keep afloat.
Even if your tenant assures you that “they will resolve the problem shortly”- still make arrangements, which leads me onto my next point…
- The lies and excuses: It’s not unheard of for tenants to suddenly transform into the biggest bullshit artists on the planet when they’re in arrears- in fact, that’s horrifically normal. They’ll pretty much say and do anything just for some breathing space, and you can’t really blame them for that. We’re all just trying to survive.
If they suddenly start breaking down in tears like a little bitch over the phone or elsewhere, you’ll need to be compassionate, but simultaneously, and more importantly, you’ll need to remain focused on the situation without allowing your compassion to take control. At the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter if they’re being genuine, nor does it matter if you believe what they’re saying or not… because they still owe you cheese.
- Your tenant has the upper hand: the ball is in their court, and that will be the hardest part to accept, because you’ll have to bow down to someone that’s in the wrong- and despite that, being protected by the law.
They can either make this extremely quick and easy for you, or excruciatingly painful and long for you. However, in many cases, you can control how they play it by how you manage the situation.
- Two wrongs don’t make a right: it doesn’t matter how much wrong and pain your tenant is inflicted on you, you still need to stick to the proper procedures. That’s one hard muther-fudging pill to swallow, but you’re a professional, so you’re going to swallow that fat penis of a pill like a man… or a whimpering little girl. Either way, swallow it.
- Eviction: if the tenant falls 2 months in arrears, the process of eviction can commence, but only then. That may seem like a life sentence, but that’s because it is.
I’ll be the first to say that having to wait for some useless tossor to fall 2 months into arrears before being able to kick-start the eviction process is scandalous. But it is what it is. Patience.
On a sidenote, you might be able to evict on other grounds that may allow for a quicker eviction, or repossess your property with a Section 21 notice if your tenant is approaching or is out of the fixed date period.
- Landlord Vs Tenant: it’s extremely difficult to bounce back to a healthy relationship once a tenant falls into arrears, even if the debt is paid. Of course, this largely depends on “why” the tenant fell into the situation and how quickly it was rectified, but generally, there’s just too much uncertainty and fear looming afterwards. It’s like when someone cheats in a relationship, things are never the same afterwards.
In most cases, the landlord will want to find new tenants because rebuilding the trust is a tall order, and there’s always that undercurrent of detestation that will never quite escape. You may need to accept that the relationship is over, which means you’ll need to find suitable replacements shortly. However, I don’t necessarily believe that to be a bad thing, just something to be aware of.
3) Communication is imperative
At the early stages, communication is vital.
Once it’s been established that rent will be late, or is late, refrain from allowing your muggy mood to surface when communicating with your tenant. Bite your tongue if you must, and dump your frustrations elsewhere. I have this blog, this is my therapy, feel free to also unload. Permission granted.
As said, it’s better to try and work with your tenants than against, so try to keep them on your side, or at least on neutral territory.
Be understanding, and recognise that this can be resolved amicably and quickly if it’s handled rationally. The source of the problem might just be an abnormal, unforeseen circumstance, which won’t take a miracle to resolve. Don’t act prematurely before truly understanding the situation. Try to resolve the situation.
Enquire why the rent is late, when it will be paid, and if there is anything you can do to help. It’s important to focus on your primary goal, which is to collect rent, so you need to be accommodating and helpful, despite how aggravated you are. Yes, it’s two-faced, but so what, really?
Finally, remember, it’s important to use traceable means of communication e.g. recorded delivery letters and emails with receipt confirmation. If this ends up going to court, you will need all the evidence you can get your grubby little mitts on, especially ones that will prove that you tried to resolve the problem professionally, legally and fairly.
“He said this”, “she said that”, “he tried to poke it in me” will get you nowhere.
4) Try offering solutions
Realise that it is unlikely your tenant will maliciously pull the rent from out of their arse, so trying to ‘force’ it out of them will be futile. If they could pay, they would. Your time is better spent thinking of how you can come to a solution together that will work for both parties.
If you can, offer a solution. Again, this will largely dependent on “why” the tenant is arrears in the first place. But creating a fair and realistic repayment plan can be effective. You may not retrieve the total amount owed any time soon, but knowing the debt is slowly being reduced is better than nothing. If you’re as liberal and hippy-dippy as I am, you may even accept payment in the form of sex.
5) Send ‘late rent’ notices
If my tenant is 3 days late on rent, I send them a text and wait to hear “why”, and once I receive the response (and crucially have it captured), I give them a call to discuss the situation. While it’s always best to communicate via letters/emails, in practical senses, it’s always easier to discuss these situations over the phone. Plus, it means my gentle and kind “tone” isn’t misconstrued as violent and aggressive, and that’s important during these times, especially when it’s so easily done.
If rent hasn’t been paid with in 5 days, irrespective of what was discussed on the phone (assuming they picked up), I send them a rent arrears reminder notification in the post. During the initial phone call, I kindly inform them that I plan on sending the notification “just for my records” so it doesn’t come as an alarming shock or a kick in the face when they receive it.
If rent is still unpaid after 14 days, I send them a follow-up rent arrears reminder notification. Both notifications I send are downloadable from the links I have provided.
As already discussed, tenants behind on rent generally have one common trait- they will promise you shit just to get you off their back. So disregard everything they have promised, it means nothing, send the notifications regardless. Don’t delay based on promises- that’s a good way of wasting time.
6) Admit defeat when it’s time
You’ve remained calm, you’ve tried to resolve the problem rationally, but your tenant isn’t playing ball. 3 weeks has passed, and you don’t see any light at the end of the tunnel; your tenant has only delivered broken promises and/or assurances that you have no confidence in.
It’s time to admit defeat and start gearing yourself up to start the eviction process/repossession. In reality, this is where it often ends up. I’m sorry, but it’s true. Brace yourself, but continue to remain calm.
A big mistake many landlords make is prolonging this step, especially based on promises made by tenants. It’s so easy for landlords to get sucked into promises and guarantees and keep delaying this (usually inevitable) step. You need to be professional by detaching yourself from everything but the underlying facts: your tenant is significantly late on paying rent and you’re losing money- so you need to take action, not sit back and rely on hope. ‘Hope’ will get you killed.. or leave you disappointed. Most likely the latter, but “killed” just sounds cooler/more dramatic, thus better.
In most cases, you will need to serve the relevant notice, whether it be a Section 8 or Section 21, that’s usually enough to scare them into paying what is owed and/or vacating the property. Best case scenario is having both those wishes fulfilled. If the tenant eventually pays and you want them to remain in the property, then that notice can be forgotten, so it’s better to always serve notice.
Once a notice is served, and you’re sure it has been received, don’t communicate with the tenant unless it’s necessary, or they contact you first. It’s a waiting game now. It’s tough and extremely frustrating, but you’ve done your part for now. The next step is eviction/repossession…
I’m not going to discuss the eviction/repossession process here, because I’ve already discussed how to evict a tenant, which includes seeking advice/help from professional eviction services for those that want it.
If at any point you feel out of your depth, don’t be afraid to seek professional help. That will save you a lot of time and money in the long-run. A good starting point is Citizen’s Advice, they will give you free, mostly generic, legal advice, which includes covering your legal rights, along with your tenants.
If you want someone that deals with these situations on a daily basis to handle the entire procedure on your behalf, then it’s worth talking to a professional tenant eviction company.
7) Sometimes a loss is a victory
You may need to cut your losses and consider it a victory. Your pride/ego may take a battering, but that’s something you’ll eventually overcome with excessive alcohol and drugs.
If your tenant says “Hey, look brother, I can’t pay the rent, I don’t have the money, but I’m going to move out ASAP”, that’s pretty much a victory in my eyes. Allow the tenant to surrender the tenancy. And trust me, the sense of relief you’ll feel when a tenant in arrears vacates, despite the fact they owe you money, is mind-blowing. It can be a euphoric high if you allow it to be.
The last thing you want to do is try and keep a tenant like that shackled down so they’re forced to honour the fixed dates in the tenancy areement- you’ll be cutting your nose off to spite your face. You’ll effectively be trying to cage a beast. It’s healthier and easier to start over with hopefully better tenants that can keep the cash flowing. A fresh start.
Be realistic about what you can and can’t achieve, and salvage whatever victory you can. By all means, feel free to chase the owed rent (if there is any) through the legal system, because you’re absolutely entitled to that. But again, you need to be realistic about the achievable gains. Needless to say, you should be getting some comfort from the tenant’s security deposit.
8) Once it’s over
This may seem a far cry away, but despite how low, horny and hopeless you feel right now, it WILL be over, and you owe it to yourself to learn from the situation when that glorious day approaches.
Try to understand “why” your tenant fell into arrears, and learn from it. Was there anything you could have done differently to prevent the situation from occurring in the first place? Was it a case of not having a stringent enough screening process when you were sifting through the tenant applicants? Takeaway whatever you can from the experience and use it to your advantage.
Unfortunately, there’s no silver-bullet solution that will make any landlord immune to this kind of attack, because we’re dealing with humans in a world where “shit happens”- even to the best of us. However, the following will make life easier…
- Limit the risks: the best and only place to start is from the tenant referencing stage. Choose wisely, and be annoyingly diligent. Finding good tenants is one of the most crucial parts of being a landlord.
- Be prepared: understand you’re not immune to rent arrears, so always be prepared for when it happens. Rent insurance policies, tenant guarantors and short tenancies are useful and good ways of limiting damage. But also, keeping an emergency pot of cash aside to help absorb these unforeseen circumstances is good business.
If there’s one single piece of advice you should takeaway from my malandering dribble, it’s that you should ALWAYS follow the legal/proper procedures, even if that means fighting every last urge in that bangable body of yours. I mean that respectfully.
Finally, good luck.
If anyone else has any other tips, advice and experiences, please share!
Disclaimer: I'm just a simple landlord blogger, I am not qualified to give legal advice. Any advice I give is my opinion based on my experience. I will always recommend you seek legal or professional advice on any legal matters!